Scripture

“Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.” – Proverbs 27:5-6 (NIV)

If You See Something, Say Something

In the U.S., the “If You See Something, Say Something” campaign teaches citizens to recognize and report threats before disaster strikes. Spiritually, God calls us to the same—recognizing destructive patterns in others’ lives and speaking truth in love before the damage is irreversible.

But we often stay silent. Why? Fear of rejection. Fear of being wrong. Fear of conflict. We sometimes confuse tolerance with love. Yet the Bible tells us real love doesn’t hide the truth; it brings it into the light for healing. Eli’s story in 1 Samuel is a tragic reminder. His sons’ corruption in the priesthood went unchallenged for too long. When he finally spoke, his words were too little, too late, too weak—and without action. The result? Death, destruction, and disgrace.

Contrast that with the unnamed servant in 1 Samuel 25. Seeing Nabal’s insult to David and recognizing the danger, he ran to Abigail, the one person who could intervene. His quick, truthful, and courageous action saved lives and prevented sin. When Jesus taught about confrontation in Matthew 18:15-17, His goal wasn’t to embarrass but to restore. Speaking truth with gentleness isn’t harshness—it’s obedience. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is have the hard conversation.

Reflection Questions

1. Is there a “red flag” situation in your life you’ve been avoiding?
2. Do you tend to confuse tolerance with love? Why?
3. What steps could you take to speak truth with gentleness this week?

Prayer

Lord, give me eyes to see when danger is coming and the courage to lovingly speak up. Help me examine my own heart first, act with wisdom, and be willing to have hard conversations for the sake of restoration. Make me an unnamed hero in someone’s story, for Your glory. Amen.

Action Step

Today, prayerfully identify one situation where God may be calling you to act. Prepare your heart, choose your words carefully, and trust Him with the results.